College serves up flirting opportunities all the time. But flirting with guys can be an intimidating prospect for some. Here are some tips to help you smooth the way. Always remember, flirting is fun, but you want to be subtle and classy, not over the top and trashy.
People in general, gravitate toward confident people. So walk tall and make eye contact. Smiling won’t do any harm either.
Once you have identified your object of desire, take the confident eye contact one step further. Hold his gaze for just a fraction of a moment longer than normal. This is a clear signal to him that you are interested. Follow that up by laughing at his jokes, but only if they are funny. False laughter comes across as just that, and it’s not a turn-on. Instead, it can make you look a bit ditsy.
Once you are talking to him, ask questions and get to know him – but make sure he does this in return. You don’t want to end up with a guy who isn’t interested in anything you have to say.
While you are talking to him, twirling or flipping your hair, if done in a demure way, can really draw his eye. You don’t want to overdo this one, just draw attention to your femininity. When he is talking to you, face and lean slightly toward him. If he stays facing and leaning in towards you, you can almost be assured he is flirting back.
Following that, physical contact can move things along. Whoa tiger, no, I’m not talking about kissing just yet. Just a brief moment of your hand on his thigh can be enough to get him all hot and bothered.
If you’re having dinner, feed him a fry, or exclaim how tasty your food is, and serve him a bit on your fork. Feeding each other is a very clear mating sign and will definitely move things along.